Friday, February 29, 2008

Internet Personals...

1st of all, you probably think, 'Well, she's "surfin the 'net for men...HA! what does she expect?" Let me tell you, these types of persons can be met anywhere...school, Starbucks, work, grocery store, gas stationbars and yes even CHURCH!
No person (man or woman) deserves the kind of crap I have had to endure the last 16 days for any reason, whatsoever! When you start seeing someone, it's all about the "gettin to know you" process, if after a while you dont feel comfortable with what you've learned or seen, it is within your every right to decide you dont want to see that person anymore. Doesnt matter how you met the person, whether it be on a personals site or any other format, once you've decided it's not going to work for you and you've seen those red flags and those warning bells went off and you've decided to bail that is YOUR CHOICE...and YOUR RIGHT.
(Good news is Manteca PD has just informed me as of tonite, HE HAS BEEN SERVED!)
Before I dive into my cautionary tale, I just need to get a few things off my chest.
After receiving NUMEROUS phoone calls, voice mails, emails...all obscene, vulgar and YES, theatening against me, my family and the security of my work place, I decided to call the police. My decision was based on 19/25 voice mails in one night, over 500 emails with the same content in the course of 4 days that finally made me crack and decide to reach out and get some help on this situation....

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